March 30, 2001
fire and water
age: 20
gender: female
Hi! I have three relationships before this current relationship. There is something peculiar that i realized with regards to partners I choose. I am of the fire sign, Sagittarius and all my previous including current partner are of water signs, cancer, scorpio and pisces. Am I naturally attracted to people of water signs? However, I realize that I am often in conflict with water signs, especially with scorpios. Is there any reasoning behind all these? Also, I'd really like to know what I could do to improve my current relationship with this Scorpio. Thanks for your response.
Fire and water may not actually mix...but they represent the most important of alchemical opposites...meaning...of course...Opposites Attract. (Interestingly, in Chinese Medicine, the two most important images for Yin and Yang are Water and Fire.) Not only do they attract, but if given the right care...using the right alchemical formula, temperature time, mixture, patience, etc., etc., etc.,etc.......... Something Wonderful happens. But that's a lot of etceteras! Lots of stuff can go wrong...and as you've experienced...usually does.
You've taken on a big project in terms of relationship with a Scorpio. So much can go wrong between you two...but think of it as if you're hungry for Relationship, and instead of making macaroni and cheese, you've decided to make a souffle. The two of you can pull it off, but with a Scorpio, remember to just stay in the kitchen. Be Present, and listen to some of his directions, too. Neither one of you has all the answers...but you do have each other. If nothing else, there is certainly going to be plenty of steam.
kristo